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Issue #134
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November 2013 - Issue #134
Publisher, Larry James - Author, Speaker, Relationship Coach

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In this issue

•  A Personal Message from Larry James
•  LoveNotes for Lovers
•  Featured Relationship Article - A Prayer of Thanksgiving
•  Relationship "Book-of-the-Month" - How to Really Love the One You're With
•  Relationship Humor
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Tiny Larry James Pic A Personal Message from Larry James:

Instead of speaking only of what has been. . . revise your way of speaking about what you want and need in your relationship today. Pour all of your energy into speaking only good words about your relationship. So many times I hear partners speaking to their friends in a negative way about their partner. It you cannot say something good about them; it is better to say nothing at all. If you speak or think only of the problem, hopelessness and despair, you will get more of that.

Weigh your words. 500 of the most commonly used English words have 13,000 meanings. Choose your words carefully. They become your reality. Wherever your attention is centered, your thoughts will focus, and since action follows thought, the things you keep looking at and speaking about are going to determine what you will experience. Your relationship lives on the tip of your tongue.

Never say things to your partner that you know will trigger past bad experiences. To do so is antagonistic and just plain stupid. In this scenario, remember, a closed mouth gathers no foot.

Make an effort everyday to tell your partner how much you appreciate them. Talk tenderly. Use terms of endearment, like "Honey," "Sweetie," "Baby," etc. Say "thank you." On the way to the office? Say "Goodbye, sweetheart" instead of just "Goodbye." Whisper sweet nothings! Act loving toward each other daily and you will feel more loving toward your partner.

I hate the term "Fake it till you make it," however it's true that when you begin to visibly act more enthusiastic about your relationship, the enthusiasm is contagious. Talking the talk is one thing. Speak only good of your partner to yourself, to your partner and to others. Only good. Walking the walk should also be a high priority.

Nurture your partner with words of love, understanding, acceptance and forgiveness. Nurture: To nourish, educate, grow or develop; cultivate.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Love and verbal or physical abuse are incompatible. Someone who says they love you and continues to abuse you only thinks they need you. The truth is they will squeeze the life out of the relationship. The outcome is predictable. The person who intimidates with threats in one breath and attempts to persuade with promises of undying love the next is emotionally and mentally unstable. The sick have forgotten how to be well. Courage is called for. Refuse to become a part of the illness. Recognize its red flags. Distance yourself from such a person and seek help for yourself.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Only selfish people think only of themselves. When you really love yourself you cannot help wanting to give some of your love away. Other people have a need to be loved. So do you. People are like that. Like attracts like. What you become you attract. Want a great love partner? Become a great love partner! Work on this one. Sharing love with someone else must only and always begin with you. Learn to relate to yourself better.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Ask yourself: "Would I want to be in a relationship with me?" "Am I someone who I would want to be with forever?" Answer honestly. What comes up is always worth working on. Focus on doing what you can to make the good things better and give up behavior that has you curious enough to ask in the first place.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Always do your best to avoid, at all costs, the necessity of experiencing the negative results of anger. The healthy release of anger must be presented in a way that empowers the relationship; anger expressed without blame, without pointing fingers. To avoid unnecessary pain, it is important to learn that anger must be expressed with an attitude of acknowledgment; acknowledgment for the responsibility you have for your equal share of the upset.

From the book, "LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing!" by Larry James

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Read A Prayer of Thanksgiving - Be thankful for your relationships. All of them. Seems to me that there may be only two prayers worthy of praying. One prayer is to know God better. The other prayer is a prayer of thanksgiving. Pray a prayer of self-discovery and one of gratitude, and know God is listening.

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How to Really Love the One You're With: Affirmative Guidelines for a Healthy Love Relationship - Larry James - As seen on ABC TV's "The View" with Barbara Walters. Truly an excellent guideline for your relationship.

Larry's Review: "How to Really Love the One You're With" is a revealing and personally empowering look at self-liberating insights that will assist you in achieving a healthy love relationship anchored in unconditional love. Its' wisdom will inspire you to deeper levels of self-acceptance and understanding. These words of love will benefit anyone; married or single; whether couples already in a committed relationship or singles who may be in search of a healthy love relationship.

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Sample: We must look upon our knowledge of others who have hurt us as a special kind of doorway, and not as a potential psychological weapon. To use it as a doorway means that we can learn how to walk past the parts of us that want to punish others for their act of ignorance against us. And we are helped to make this more compassionate choice by our remembrance that the first person to be injured by any dark design acted against another is the one who carries it out.

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A child asked his father, "How were people born?" So his father said, "Adam and Eve made babies, then their babies became adults and made babies, and so on."

The child then went to his mother, asked her the same question and she told him, "We were monkeys then we evolved to become like we are now."

The child ran back to his father and said, "You lied to me!" His father replied, "No, your mom was talking about her side of the family."

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