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October 2006 - Issue #49
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In this issue

•  A Personal Message from Larry James
•  LoveNotes for Lovers
•  Featured Relationship Article - Hey Guys! Don't be Someone Who Grumbles!
•  Relationship "Book-of-the-Month" - How to Really Love the One You're With
•  Relationship Humor
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SMALL Larry James Pic A Personal Message from Larry James:

You cannot change someone else. It simply is not possible. Give it up. Love them and work on you. Never stop working on you. If your love partner doesn't keep up, who fault is that? It's a sad state of affairs, but you have to live with 'you' for the rest of your life. You are the most important person in the relationship. You come first.

Change yourself and you give others the power to change if they choose to. Being the best you can be in spite of your partner's lack of interest in personal growth or the growth of the relationship can be the very thing that serves as the inspiration needed for them to be willing to initiate change for themselves.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Only one thing activates, then converts the negative energy of anger into positive energy. . . intention. The intention must be to do something different; something that works. When you discover that what you have been doing isn't working, the only logical thing to do is to do something different.

We are talking about change. Yes, it is uncomfortable to change. You must decide which is the most uncomfortable. The same energy you expend on anger, when re-directed, can help free you of the negative emotions you feel when you are angry. Freeing yourself of these negative emotions is something you do. It is never dependent upon whoever or whatever you think is the cause of your anger.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .   It is only and always fear talking when we hear a voice telling us not to get our hopes up because we will only be disappointed. Relationships can drown in negative emotions. Feelings of fear are created in our own mind. The moment fear appears; we give up our power. Feeling fearful is only an expression of a lack of love working in our relationship. Fear only surfaces when we call it up by temporarily letting go of love.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  We use reasons to explain away why we don't want to do something different; reasons why we don't want to change. If we know that doing something different might help the situation, not doing something different is called "stupid." The best reason why has never solved the problem. Often reasons why are understandable, however what is not understandable is why we feel the need to have our lives dominated by reasons why we didn't do something different instead of results. When we make the decision to go for results in our love relationships. . . that's the real moment we make a decision to grow and prosper.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Trust brings lovers together. Consider it a Divine joining; the inevitable interweaving that occurs when two people love unconditionally and become as one. A feeling of deep inner security comes from the trust that is present with unconditional love; a love that never needs to be negotiated.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Affirmation - For me to experience the kind of relationship I want, I accept that to understand each other, my love partner and I must have clearly developed channels of communication.

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How to Really Love the One You're With How to Really Love the One You're With: Affirmative Guidelines for a Healthy Love Relationship - Larry James - Larry's best selling book is for singles and couples! As seen on ABC TV's "The View" with Barbara Walters. Truly an excellent guideline for your relationship.

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Sample: If you want to stop feeling like a choiceless captive in life, notice how parts of yourself love to catch negative thoughts; then dare to drop this self -- with its torments -- before they drag you down.

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