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Issue #58
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July 2007 - Issue #58
Publisher, Larry James - Author, Speaker, Relationship Coach

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In this issue

•  A Personal Message from Larry James
•  LoveNotes for Lovers
•  Featured Relationship Article - Making Love
•  Relationship "Book-of-the-Month" - Lasting Love: The Five Secrets of Growing a Vital, Conscious Relationship
•  Relationship Humor
•  Bride & Groom of the Month! - View their photo gallery!
•  Guy Finley's "Key Lesson"
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•  Contact Information - Tell us what you like best about LoveNotes for Lovers

SMALL Larry James Pic A Personal Message from Larry James:

A wife writes: My husband is a very jealous guy. Can you help me understand what's going on with him?

Jealousy is always a demonstration of our own insecurities and low self-esteem. People who are jealous may also have a problem with trusting because of past experiences. This is something only they can work on. You can only offer them love and support and encourage them to work on their self-esteem.

Jealousy also comes from fear; fear of losing the one you love; fear that someone will do something (this is mostly anxiety: concern about what MIGHT happen).

Insecurities bring forth jealousy, which, in effect, is a cry for more love. It is within our rights to ask for more affection when self-doubts surface, however, the indirect way that jealousy asks for it is counterproductive. Excessive possessiveness is inappropriate. Jealousy is the surest way to drive away the very person we may fear losing.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  People who love each other learn to respect their inherent differences. Men and women think, feel and communicate differently. Understanding this is the key. With understanding comes acceptance. With acceptance comes the ultimate expression of unconditional love.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .   For Women Only - Men tend to grow at their own speed. Unless your love partner is intentional about personal growth, anything you say to help may only cause him to feel that you think he is broken. Right or wrong, men inherently believe they can handle their own stuff.

This may or may not be true, but being insistent about helping him grow can temporarily shut him out of your life. Quit trying to fix him. Be there for him when he is ready to be cared for, otherwise let him be and quietly attend to yourself.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Affirmation - I resist having expectations for what I think my love partner should do for me. Ours is a love relationship without 'shoulds;' a relationship of individual choice; one of celebration of our right to choose individually while playing full-out as a team.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  For Singles Only - Beware of dancing hormones! They often mask a multitude of stuff. You know what I mean. It's that time when both of your antennas go up! You're tuned in to each other. Your body tells you things you didn't know about yourself. Your heart is dancing! Is it your heart or your hormones? To some, that is the fun part; a time for romance; the time when you are deep in thought. . . "Is this the one?"

While it's true that this part of a relationship feels good, perhaps you should follow your heart instead of your hormones on this one. The hormones will scream words like: 'forget all that stuff about healthy love relationships, live fast, love hard and get this one before he or she gets away!' or 'carve another notch, this one's the same as in bed!' or whatever the hormones moan.

Your heart will whisper words like: 'take it easy!' - 'one step at a time!' - 'get to know each other' - 'tell each other the relevant truth' - 'make sure it's love and not just sex!' or whatever the heart could say that would be words of love and encouragement.

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Featured Relationship Article

Read "Making Love" - This article provides a candid, but tasteful discussion of physical intimacy designed to educate and inform that can assist you in having a terrific time together.

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Books make grrreat gifts for someone you love!
Lasting Love: The Five Secrets of Growing a Vital, Conscious Relationship - Gay Hendricks & Kathlyn Hendricks - In this long-awaited follow-up to their seminal "Conscious Loving: The Journey to Co-Committment," the Hendricks take on two of the most pressing problems that sap vitality and energy from our committed relationships: how to forge a closer relationship that still allows each partner full creative autonomy, and how to generate the passion and preserve the harmony essential to keeping long-term partnerships alive and blooming.

Larry's Review: When couples read this book together, they can expect an immediate payoff; a much healthier relationship! Read "How to Get the Most From Reading a Relationship Book!"

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Guy Finley's "Key Lessons" - The wisdom and wit of Guy Finley. Don't miss this opportunity to brighten your life! At every regular meeting at Guy's Foundation in southern Oregon, there's a special board in front of the class where the Key Lesson for that meeting is written out for everyone to consider before, during, and after the talk. Book mark this page and return every day for a breath of fresh air & something new to think about!

Sample: The Character of Goodness, of compassion and kindness that we would like to reflect and express before our friends (and enemies), requires that we place its life before our own. And yet, when we agree to this interior action of self-sacrifice, not only is our life returned to us, but we find that it has been made greater than it was -- even though we had to first surrender it to something seen as being Greater than ourselves.

Pass along Larry's Website especially for authors & speakers, featuring lots of resources, tips, books & articles. Larry has independently published 4 books and offers "author/speaker coaching!"

Go to: http://www.AuthorsandSpeakersNetwork.com

Relationship Humor

While attending a marriage seminar on communication, David and his wife listened to the instructor declare, "It is essential that husbands and wives know the things that are important to each other."

He addressed the man, "Can you describe your wife's favorite flower?"

David leaned over, touched his wife's arm gently and whispered, "Pillsbury All-Purpose, isn't it, dear?"

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