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Issue #99
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December 2010 - Issue #99
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In this issue

•  A Personal Message from Larry James
•  LoveNotes for Lovers
•  Featured Relationship Article - What's to Become of You?
•  Relationship "Book-of-the-Month" - The Self Health Revolution
•  Relationship Humor
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Tiny Larry James Pic A Personal Message from Larry James:

You cannot change someone else. It simply is not possible. Give it up. Love them and work on you. Never stop working on you. If your love partner doesn't keep up, who fault is that? It's a sad state of affairs, but you have to live with 'you' for the rest of your life. You are the most important person in the relationship. You come first.

Change yourself and you give others the power to change if they choose to. Being the best you can be in spite of your partner's lack of interest in personal growth or the growth of the relationship can be the very thing that serves as the inspiration needed for them to be willing to initiate change for themselves.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  For Women Only - When you feel your love partner lagging behind in the relationship, it is often difficult to back away from what seems to be a responsibility to assist him. Smothering your lover with attempts to help can give the appearance that you think he is unable to make his own responsible choices.

No one can change anything without the freedom to do so. Smothering feels like 'no freedom' to a man. Your energy will soon be depleted if your love partner has little desire to change. Nurture him with your love and support. Be there when he needs someone to listen. Only offer help when it is requested.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Often we are not present in our relationship. We are either looking into the past with regret or into the future with concern. This is it! To experience the reality of the present we must learn to live in the present; to be present to the experience of right now. The possibilities of the present are only available to those who are willing to live and love in the present. We cannot change the past and a concern for the future allows us to be absent from the present. Both options keep us stuck! Live and love every moment of right now!

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Letting go of behavioral patterns that no longer serve us often feels as though we are risking our safety and comfort. Calculated risks taken for the benefit of our own well being are worth taking. This form of movement is safer than standing still. Those who remain stationary become an easy target for misery of their own creation. The energy we expend by holding on often leaves us drained and with a feeling of hopelessness. It takes no strength to let go; only courage. Courage is a byproduct of a positive self- image.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Only one response to conflict opens the door to intimacy; an intent to learn from the experience.

From the book, "LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing!" by Larry James

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Confused about the direction your relationship is taking?

Confusing road sign Larry james offers Relationship Coaching for both singles who want a committed relationship, and couples who need help regaining that closeness they once felt in their relationship, or who want to deepen their levels of intimacy.

Larry James is a "solution finder." He is available by telephone for personal relationship coaching for high functioning singles and married couples; people who are committed to "doing" whatever it takes to make their relationships work. Mature people know their relationships can always be better. A healthier love relationship is the goal.

Call Larry James for a very private relationship coaching session and experience lots of "a-ha's!" Call for a daytime or evening coaching appointment - 800-725-9223 (Greater Phoenix area - 480-998-9411). Check out Larry's Personal Guarantee! Results may include an increased passion for Love and romance!

The fringe benefit? A more loving, peaceful, happy relationship. Larry will help you fit the pieces of the relationshp puzzle together in a healthy way!

Larry gets LoveNotes. . . "We've had our ups and downs but lately both of us were uncertain about which direction to turn. Thank God we turned to you! Our 1-hour coaching session with you was what we both needed. Wow. You sure don't mince words! ;-) " - J.L., Tampa, FL

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Featured Relationship Article

Read "What's to Become of You?" - "What's to become of me?" you say? That may be the wrong question. What "more" is to become of me? Ask yourself that question and see what comes up. You always want to be working on the more of you which is the best of the rest of you! What's left? What more can you contribute to others than by always working on really being more than you have been for yourself and for them? The emphasis is on being. Be. Become.

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Books make grrreat gifts for someone you love!

The Self Health Revolution - J. Michael Zenn - The Self Health Revolution makes some riveting and audacious claims. If these claims are false, then this book takes it place upon history's garbage heap of misleading and useless health books, but if these claims prove to be true, then they have astronomical implications on your health and the health of everyone that you care about.

Larry's Review: "The Self Health Revolution" is the most compelling book you will ever read about beginning your own regimen of self health! Michael Zenn's wise advice is evolutionary! Read it once with a high lighter, then read it again. Next, do what you know you must.

The Self Health Revolution

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Guy Finley's "Key Lessons" - The wisdom and wit of Guy Finley. Don't miss this opportunity to brighten your life! At every regular meeting at Guy's Foundation in southern Oregon, there's a special board in front of the class where the Key Lesson for that meeting is written out for everyone to consider before, during, and after the talk. Book mark this page and return every day for a breath of fresh air & something new to think about!

Sample: Stop worrying about who you think you should be, and start being who you are. How? Stop telling yourself who you should be, and start listening for an altogether new kind of voice that has been quietly calling to you.

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Relationship Humor

The soldier serving in Afghanistan was annoyed and upset when his girl wrote breaking off their engagement and asking for her photograph back.

He went out and collected from his friends all the unwanted photographs of women that he could find, bundled them all together and sent them back with a note saying, "I regret to inform you that I cannot remember which one is you - please keep your photo and return the others."

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Larry James has been voted "Best Officiant" in the Greater Phoenix area for 2008 by Arizona's Finest Wedding Sites and Services Magazine!

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LoveNote. . . "Our ceremony was absolutely amazing! Larry was very accommodating to work with and provided us with many suggestions throughout the entire planning process. Our ceremony was breathtaking and several people could not stop talking about how amazing our officiant was. He even helped me out in the middle of the ceremony as I became very emotional! Thanks Larry for making our wedding so memorable!" - Jennifer & Justin Humpal

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