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Making Love
Larry James
- LoveNote. . . Passion is
pure energy, aliveness, and like life itself, it starts off neutral; it is a
given. We are the ones that give the energy of passion direction and meaning.
The more we have succeeded in channeling passion into love, the more attractive
we have become to each other, and the more attractive our relationship has become
to both of us. ~ Henry James Borys
Great sex is an active ingredient in all healthy love relationships. Sex is fun
and pleasure is good for us. Making love is surrendering to a higher form of
energy than any one love partner can experience alone. Making love is two love
partners experiencing their oneness with each other.
When we make love, we are much greater than the sum of our parts. It is
spiritual as well as physical. We never forget the spiritual source of our love.
Making love is a Divine idea. We never allow making love to become the supreme
expression of the absence of God in our lives.
- LoveNote. . . The
miracle of unconditional love is nurtured by the power of the Divine and our own
imagination. Imagine the possibilities! ~ Larry James
Sex gives us an enormous opportunity to exercise responsibility. I believe that
the sexual experience is immeasurably heightened when both love partners feel
free to mutually share their likes and dislikes, cares and concerns and honor
each other for their choices. It is the ultimate expression of the joy of life;
of being together. It is a Divine connection.
My love partner is the consummate lover. She openly discloses her sexuality,
free of inhibitions. I also invite my love partner to know me intimately. Making
love with one another elevates us to a level of satisfaction for which there are
no words.
The highest form of pleasure comes when you give yourself fully with love,
creating a mystical ecstasy that allows both love partners to be lost in time and
space, if only for a few brief moments.
- LoveNote. . . Chains do
not hold a relationship together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which
sew people together through the years. That is what makes a relationship last -
more than passion or even sex. ~ Simone Signoret
My love partner and I both know that our individual sexual fulfillment is
primarily up to each other, not our love partner. Our lovemaking is a beautiful
expression of love at its most Divine level of happiness; a demonstration of
reverence for God's ultimate gift of Love to us as lovers.
Intimate love partners share playfulness. I have a love partner who is playful
when we make love. Sexual playfulness is vital for continuing to experience each
other as lovers. We both feel free to be ourselves. Ours is a maturing sexual
love relationship, and as lovers we discover an even greater source of sexual
excitement by revealing our emotional selves and communicating heart-to-heart in
our sexual play.
In the passion of making love, my playmate and I communicate a profundity of love
that words cannot carry. Being together in this fully present and intimate way
opens the channel of communication to allow for full disclosure of emotions and
the expression of our innermost desires.
We never allow our lovemaking to be a routine act of fulfilling desire. To do so
would invite boredom. Intimate love is an adventure of shared warmth and
spontaneity. We have spontaneity in our lovemaking, knowing that spontaneity
between lovers must always be balanced with kindness, care, and respect for each
other.
- LoveNote. . . Love
today, right now, without condition or requirement. Live each day by love. Seize
love when it comes your way and as quickly, give it away. Celebrate love! ~
Larry James
We occasionally have our very own private party in the bedroom or anywhere else
our imagination takes us that might stimulate and excite us. We allow our
imagination and creativity free rein. We do not expect our love relationship to
be exciting without making it exciting.
The intimate and trusting atmosphere we create together allows an occasional
flirting with mutually acceptable fantasies, a powerful stimulus to sexual
pleasure. Anything goes as long as love prevails: touch, tongue, tickle; silk,
satin, lace; the kitchen table, the patio in the moonlight, the hot tub or
Bennigan's parking lot.
Making love is an open window of discovery, an exciting adventure of each other,
allowing exploration of a depth of passion attainable to only the few.
My love partner and I work together to make our love sanctuary more beautiful and
comfortable to enliven and make special our intimacy.
- LoveNote. . . There is
no such thing as too much intimacy. ~ Paul Pearsall, Ph.D.
A balance of excitement and quiet pleasures allows a relationship to maximize its
potential. My love partner and I have a deep need for the gentleness of a
passionate kiss, tenderness, caressing, fondling, and touching each other.
We experience touch as an expression of caring, of comforting and of expressing
warm affection. Touching enlivens our lives. It nurtures our love relationship.
The gift of touch contains within it the miracle of healing and bonding. Touch
is a means of connecting emotionally, physically and spiritually. The gentleness
of touch communicates, "I love you," and is not always a prelude to passion.
- LoveNote. . . Touch me!
Love me gently with your touch. When it is a genuine expression of true love,
touch can bring you intimately closer to another human being than can thousands
of words. ~ Larry James
Our physical nakedness reflects our emotional honesty, and our intimate physical
embrace denotes our emotional acceptance of each other. Physical intimacy is the
goal of our sexual expression. With intimacy comes a deeper level of exposure of
one's self, a profound feeling of enrichment of us joining as one and loving
acceptance by each other.
Foreplay is often found in the quietness of loving words.
In an atmosphere of safety and trust, we derive much pleasure from giving a
full-body massage and receiving one, never neglecting any part of our bodies. The
deliberate, slow motion of massage stirs passion and builds desire. It allows us
to tune in to our lover's innermost feelings.
Candlelight, soft music, a glass of wine, fragrant oils, a soft feather, a
vibrator or two and more are all a sacred part of this Divine ritual. We use our
imagination and enjoy one another. We savor the magic of the moment. Massage is
communicating with sensitivity what we find most pleasurable and erotic; it is
making love with our fingers.
My lover's body is a temple, the container of my loved one's soul. I honor it. I
respect it.
- LoveNote. . . Trust
blazes new trails. It creates the opening for intimacy to exist. Among lovers,
trust invites the spark of the Divine to ignite their passion. ~ Larry
James
We listen for the sensual sounds our music makes. We know our lover's body like
a musician knows his instrument and we play it for all it's worth. We make
beautiful music together. She often assists me in writing the score. We take
turns leading the orchestra. Our lovemaking is a symphony of supersex. Fully
expressing our feelings in this way lessens pressure and anxiety, increases love
and deepens trust. We continue to rediscover the things that give us pleasure
and bring feelings of closeness.
Sex that is deeply enjoyed is freely given and taken, with deep soul- shaking
climaxes, and makes each love partner become humble at the remembrance of joys
past and expectant of those yet to be discovered and enjoyed. I am attracted to
the majesty of sexual union with my love partner and excited by the promise of
its lofty secrets.
- LoveNote. . . Last night
I made love with an angel. She was so hot her eyes danced as if to escape the
fire of our passion. ~ Larry James
I am becoming a master at being passionately intimate with the one I love. Sparks
fly! We can feel the sexual electricity in the air when we are together. We
tingle when we mingle. Whatever my lover and I find ourselves doing in the flow
of making love is right and beautiful.
We share our passion without fear, and with patience, commitment, and trust. This
level of emotional sharing generates a limitless flow of sexual energy. I seek
not just sensory gratification but Divine union with my lover.
My love partner is someone who shares my desire to devour life for the romantic
adventures that make life delicious.
- LoveNote. . . I invite
the divine warmth of my graceful angel to embrace me with tranquility and peace.
Her passionate, peaceful qualities gently touch my heart. Her soothing presence
bathes me with her radiating love. I acknowledge her for the Divine idea she is.
~ Larry James
Copyright © - Larry James - Adapted from the book,
"How to Really Love the One You're With: Affirmative Guidelines for a Healthy Love Relationship" by Larry James
More on this subject: 15 Hot Ideas for Phenomenal Physical Intimacy!
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