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Reciprocal Links: Who & How to Target

David Callan, Guest Author

Reciprocal linking is one of the most effective ways of driving targeted mass numbers of people to your website. However in order to be successful you have to carefully target and choose the sites you want to link with.

What you need to be doing is focusing on linking to similar high-traffic, quality sites, which will interest you visitors and which complement your site, not compete with it. Sending visitors to a competing site with a similar product is a big mistake because chances are they'll end up buying their product.

Try not to down-link which is what I call it when a site links with a site with far less traffic. Always aim to up-link with a few high traffic sites, rather than a bunch of low traffic sites. The results are much better.

My favorite and first thing to do when looking for sites to target is to try a take traffic away from my competition. I do this by visiting or any other engine that will tell me which sites link to which.

Say for example you knew your competition was, you would go to altavista and type in (leaving out the http://www. part). So to follow the above format you would type in and do the search. Altavista would return all the sites in its database that link to

These are the first few sites you want to link to because you know they are sending traffic (and business) to your competition and you want a piece of action too. Chances are if these sites link to your competitor they will link to you too.

Depending on the industry of your business and your competitor, he or she could have hundreds of links, so be prepared to be held up for quite some time. However it's well worth it because you are effectively taking visitors away from your competitors site by having your link wherever their link is.

The next way you can target sites to link with is by visiting one of the major search sites, like or These search engines return results of good quality. In's case it's because all sites are reviewed by a human editor, and in's case it's because they use link popularity as one of the main factors of relevancy when returning results from a search, meaning only good quality sites are returned.

So you're on either or, now enter keywords and keyphrases which relate to the theme of your website. Remember you don't want to link to competitive sites, so try not to be too specific with your search terms.

For example if I was doing this I wouldn't enter "Internet marketing articles" because chances are most results would be competitive sites, I would enter in "Internet marketing" because it's a wide area but it's still related to my website theme and not necessarily competing with me. The sites that show up in these results are prime targets. Ask for links with these guys, next you can target the guys who have links to them. The possibilities are endless.

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