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December 2011 - Issue #111  You received this issue of "LoveNotes for Lovers" eZINE because you completed the eZINE
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In this issue • A Personal Message from Larry James
LoveNote for Lovers. . . The goal of resolving conflict in a relationship is not victory or defeat. It is reaching a mutual understanding through open discussions that benefits both love partners. It requires letting go of our need to be right. Mutually solving problems brings love partners closer together. It allows for negotiation and compromise. It promotes positive momentum. LoveNote for Lovers. . . True acceptance of your own and each others individuality and separateness is the only foundation upon which a mature, healthy relationship can be based and from which unconditional love can grow. LoveNote for Lovers. . . Letting go of behavioral patterns that no longer serve us often feels as though we are risking our safety and comfort. Calculated risks taken for the benefit of our own well being are worth taking. This form of movement is safer than standing still. Those who remain stationary become an easy target for misery of their own creation. The energy we expend by holding on often leaves us drained and with a feeling of hopelessness. It takes no strength to let go; only courage. Courage is a byproduct of a positive self- image. LoveNote for Lovers. . . In reality, anger is a derivative of and an expression of fear. To transcend or master fear, we must turn our back on it; exercise courage. Love cannot exist in the presence of fear. It is impossible for opposites to co-exist. They cannot occupy the same space at the same time. So. . . we drift. Back and forth. Love. Fear. Love. Fear. We must learn to express love to ourselves and to others in the midst of upsets. Releasing anger in healthy ways proves we are capable of creative acts of wholeness. Healing is always around the corner. It shows up when we have the courage to let go of the anger and fully embrace love. From the book, "LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing!" by Larry James Sample more LoveNotes: http://www.CelebrateLove.com/lovenote.shtml
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An old married couple was at home watching TV. The husband had the remote and was switching back and forth between a fishing channel and the porn channel.
The wife became more and more annoyed and finally said: "For God's sake! Leave it on the porn channel. You already know how to fish!"
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