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Issue #147
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December 2014 - Issue #147
Publisher, Larry James - Author, Speaker, Relationship Coach

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In this issue

•  A Personal Message from Larry James
•  LoveNotes for Lovers
•  Featured Relationship Article - Don't Criticize, Condemn or Complain
•  Relationship "Book-of-the-Month" - How to Really Love the Once You're With
•  Relationship Humor
•  Bride & Groom-of-the-Month! - View their photo gallery!
•  Guy Finley's "Key Lesson"
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Tiny Larry James Pic A Personal Message from Larry James:

When you allow free-floating anxiety to permeate your relationship, you're basically giving it your "stamp of approval." Address the tough issues with straight talk and transparency.

Allow your partner to see and hear who you really are because if you don't talk your partner will most likely assume the worst and nothing will get better. Pretending everything is rosy when it's clearly not will drive a wedge between you that is difficult to remove.

Find creative ways to communicate what is really on your mind. Infuse your relationship with lively and loving conversation. This is especially important when you really don't want to or you are afraid to because of past disagreement memories.

Silence is not golden. It's insulting to your partner and it erodes trust. If you feel the need to get something off your mind. Say it! Never candy-coat it or act like nothing's wrong. Speak your words in the most loving way you can. The sooner the better.

What you permit... you promote!

Sameness does not promote relationship growth. If your relationship needs conversation, speak it. Scrutinize your relationship. Cut to the chase. Get down to the nitty-gritty. Inaction is a form of action however it usually gets you nowhere.

Is it time to re-think how you are being in the relationship? Is your relationship out-of-whack... or it is just you? Be honest.

If you need help, ask for it. If not... prove it.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Affirmation For Men Only - I want the best for my love partner and will never feel threatened by her successes in any way. My love partner is unique and I love her for who she is, not for what I may expect her to be. I encourage emotional self-sufficiency in my love partner. I believe that the need for individual autonomy is not only compatible with a successful forever relationship, but can only be a strong contributor.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Maturity is the ability to live up to the responsibilities of a love relationship, and this means being dependable. It means keeping your word; it means living in your relationship as if your word really means something.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Things change. Feelings change. Needs change. Wants change. In a healthy love relationship you must remember to communicate these changes in a loving way as they occur. How sad to change your feelings in a positive way and never communicate them to your love partner. Effective communication is required. It cannot happen by osmosis.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Tender moments of togetherness are necessary for a love relationship to grow. They must be tempered with the balance that the benefits of separateness also promote. The balance between closeness and separateness must be respected.

From the book, "LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing!" by Larry James

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Read Don't Criticize, Condemn or Complain - Many years ago I took the Dale Carnegie course for public speaking and my life has never been the same since. An important part of the course were the ³3 C¹s;² Don¹t Criticize, Condemn or Complain. We all do it. Some of us do it without even thinking about the consequences. It is only and always a mistake. It can undermine the trust of our partner and cause them to see us as negative, disloyal and worse. No one wants to be known as a constant complainer.

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How to Really Love the One You're With: Affirmative Guidelines for a Healthy Love Relationship - Larry James - "How to Really Love the One You're With" is a revealing and personally empowering look at self-liberating insights that will assist you in achieving a healthy love relationship anchored in unconditional love. Its' wisdom will inspire you to deeper levels of self-acceptance and understanding. These words of love will benefit anyone; married or single; whether couples already in a committed relationship or singles who may be in search of a healthy love relationship.

Jack Canfield, Bestselling Co-author Chicken Soup for the Soul series: "Larry James speaks from the heart. His words carefully craft a message of hope that inspires couples to work together in a spirit of love and understanding. The powerful effect of his work in the area of relationships can change your life!"

How to Really Love

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Guy Finley's "Key Lessons" - The wisdom and wit of Guy Finley. Don't miss this opportunity to brighten your life! At every regular meeting at Guy's Foundation in southern Oregon, there's a special board in front of the class where the Key Lesson for that meeting is written out for everyone to consider before, during, and after the talk. Book mark this page and return every day for a breath of fresh air & something new to think about!

Sample: Freedom from self-wrecking behavior must begin with our recognition that we are voluntarily serving that which compromises us, even though we may strongly claim the counter is true. Such a conscious awareness of this conflict inherent in our own divided mind may be difficult to endure, but only if we fail to realize this last point: This conscious awareness - and it alone - is the seed of a new action that eventually flowers in a self-wholeness that is one and the same with true self-freedom.

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Something NEW about Business Networking is posted every 4th day!
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Relationship Humor

Ralph is driving home one evening, when he suddenly realizes that it's his daughter's birthday and he hasn't bought her a present. He drives to the mall, runs to the toy store, and says to the shop assistant, "How much is that Barbie in the window?"

In a condescending manner, she says, "Which Barbie?" She continues, "We have Barbie Goes to the Gym for $19.95, Barbie Goes to the Ball for $19.95, Barbie Goes Shopping for $19.95, Barbie Goes to the Beach for $19.95, Barbie Goes Nightclubbing for $19.95, and Divorced Barbie for $265.00."

Ralph asks, "Why is the Divorced Barbie $265.00 when all the others are only $19.95?"

"That's obvious," the saleslady says. "Divorced Barbie comes with Ken's house, Ken's car, Ken's boat, Ken's furniture..."

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