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Issue #28
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January 2005 - Issue #28
Publisher, Larry James - Author, Speaker, Relationship Coach

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In this issue

•  A Personal Message from Larry James
•  LoveNotes for Lovers - Tips for better Relationships
•  Featured Relationship Article - The 3 BIGGEST Mistakes Newly Singles Make
•  Relationship "Book-of-the-Month" - The Twelve Gifts in Marriage
•  Relationship Humor - Have a SMILE on me!
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SMALL Larry James Pic A Personal Message from Larry James:

This is a good time of year to do a "baggage check."

What do you hold on to that is hurtful and self-defeating? Do you worry about future events that may never happen? Are you holding on to grudges, resentments, hatred, prejudices? Do you agonize over losses? Do you keep reliving past hurts and disappointments? Is there someone you need to forgive? Are you always expecting the worse?

It's a new year! Time for a new beginning. I'm not suggesting you make a resolution, for to be resolute is to have a firmness of purpose, which for most doesn't last very long. Rather I am suggesting that you live in a continual process of resolving to find answers to all the negative questions that bounce around in your head and keep you from moving forward.

What is the best way to do this? The simple answer is to let go of what doesn't work. Release all the things that no longer serve you. Easier said they done, right? Anything worthwhile takes effort and a commitment to make the necessary behavioral changes. Without that, nothing changes!

My friend, Guy Finley once said, "Let go of all the familiar but useless rules of rigor that tell you life would be meaningless without running around in some kind of conflict. Stop referring to your own well-worn but useless wish that your life will get better the longer you play. It won't - unless we believe that feeling exhausted is the same as being exalted."

Letting go can be the first is a series of positive actions that can liberate you from your negative past and have you experience the joy of release. Freedom lies in letting go. The past is an energy drain. It saps your strength. Let go. If now, you can only imagine freedom, know and believe that you can attain it.

To "let go" takes Love. You must live Love. To "let go" is to acknowledge that which you cannot change, and pursue that which you can.

Have your "baggage check" be an opportunity to focus on taking responsibility for the choices you make regarding your thoughts and actions.

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LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Trust creates breakthroughs in having relationships work. Among lovers, trust invites the spark of the Divine to ignite their passion. Trust keeps the magic of love alive.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .   To have an intimate love relationship, love partners need to feel the freedom to live their lives together in ways that satisfy each of them individually and still meet each others needs.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Choose to be in a relationship where the romance continues; where both partners continue to do things that you considered romantic when the relationship began.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  If you ever reach a point in your relationship where you think you have nothing good to say about your love partner, close your mouth until you think of something good to say. . . then say it. You tell yourself what to think. . . tell yourself to 'shut up' when the temptation to speak ill of your lover occurs.

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Featured Relationship Article

The 3 BIGGEST Mistakes Newly Singles Make - (For Singles Only) - The BIGGEST mistakes that newly singles can make are mistakes that most singles refuse to believe and, as a result, they soon find themselves experiencing the same relationships as in the past. It is an even bigger mistake to not acknowledge that these colossal blunders really ARE mistakes! Evade these avoidable errors in judgment, and ALL of your relationships will work better!

Read the complete article. . .

Larry James Endorses the Personality Analysis!

Before you can have a healthy, committed relationship, you must first know yourself and take time to know your partner. Crimson Compass Personality Analysis is a great first step in the right direction! It's in-depth and to-the-point. I have personally experienced this process and highly recommend it for singles and couples.

Larry James, Professional Speaker/Relationship Coach/Author,
"How to Really Love the One You're With"

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The Twelve Gifts in Marriage - Charlene Costanzo - Anyone who's ever said "I do" knows that a successful marriage takes commitment, hard work, and patience. Marriage is a journey, one that requires a couple to use all of their inherent gifts if they are to steer a true and steady course. This beautifully illustrated keepsake book from the author of The Twelve Gifts of Birth and The Twelve Gifts for Healing offers hope and inspiration to readers, whether they are newlyweds or couples celebrating a Golden Anniversary. (NOTE: Sandy Charveze & Larry James are featured as models in this book.)

Larry's Review: The Twelve Gifts in Marriage is an insightful gift to everyone and a delight to read. It unveils the mystery of having a happy, healthy and successful relationship. Read this book with someone you Love!

The Twelve Gifts in Marriage
How To Really Love the One You're With BONUS Relationship BOOK to start the year off right!

How To Really Love The One You're With: Affirmative Guidelines For A Healthy Love Relationship - Larry James (As seen on ABC TV's "The View" with Barbara Walters). This is a book for solo singles, singles with partners and married couples! The one you're with is the one you see in the mirror every morning! If you are a couple, the one you're with is you and your partner!

For hundreds of relationship books, videos, audios and music, visit Larry's Book Store.

Does your relationship need a rescue? - You are invited to arrange for a personal relationship coaching session by telephone with Larry James. Let fresh eyes discover new solutions and offer suggestions that will help you with your nagging relationship issues. Larry James pulls no punches. He tells it like it is. Call for a daytime or evening coaching appointment - 800-725-9223. Check out Larry's Personal Guarantee! Relationship need a rescue?

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"Cash, check or charge?" I asked, after folding items the woman wished to purchase. As she fumbled for her wallet I noticed a remote control for a television set in her purse.

"So, do you always carry your TV remote?" I asked.

"No," she replied, "but my husband refused to come shopping with me, and I figured this was the most evil thing I could do to him legally." is the crème de la crème of intimacy Websites!

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