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March 2005 - Issue #30
Publisher, Larry James - Author, Speaker, Relationship Coach

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In this issue

•  A Personal Message from Larry James
•  LoveNotes for Lovers - Relationship Tidbits
•  Featured Relationship Article - Two Poems by Larry James
•  Relationship "Books-of-the-Month" - Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers
•  Relationship Humor - A Touch of Humor
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SMALL Larry James Pic A Personal Message from Larry James:

Intimacy is the Only Path to Passion - Sharing your inner-world tells your lover the level of trust you are willing to communicate or to share. Not sharing intimacy negates the opportunity to grow together.

Honesty bonds two lover in a very speical way. A lack of open communication closes the door to intimacy, passion, great lovemaking and unconditional love.

Dare to reveal yourself. Become transparent, not invisible. . . transparent. Sharing your true self adds the spiritual dimension that is missing in many relationships. Being in touch with who you really are is a spiritual experience.

Without honesty present there is no love. "I'm not sure I love you anymore," translates to, "I'm not sure I can trust you with my innermost thoughts and feelings."

A lack of sharing builds a lack of respect. Taking someone for granted, builds disrespect and becomes a wedge between two lovers. Then comes the drifting apart you once feared. You beome lonely, anxious and withdraw even more.

The only solution is the open talk you can allow yourself to speak about it. The depth of connection that comes from intimacy, when you openly communicate, comes with bringing on the experience of love, most desired, yet difficult when you are inclined to withhold because of fear.

You make the choice. Intimacy or separation.

It is only and always in your hands.

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For a process to help you communicate better, read, "Communicating is Not Optional." Go to:

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  The psychological importance of working through painful resentments must not be underestimated. When old patterns are broken, a whole new world of possibility is born. Not to release and rise above suppressed feelings of hurt and anger is to remain imprisoned by them.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .   Oh, what fun to make great music together! However. . . no matter how carefully we work together to play the right lovenotes, our relationship sometimes plays sour notes; we strike a wrong chord. Love, commitment and loving conversation enables us to make music together in a way that helps us stay in tune with one another.

Committed lovers listen for the music in words that come from the heart. The music of the heart is the nourishment of love. When two hearts make music together, it's as if the angels sing. Take care to always be singing the same song.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  One of the secrets to a healthy love relationship is to never take more than you give.

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Featured Relationship Article

Read "Two poems by Larry James" based upon a real relationship cast in an imaginary setting. See You At the Beach will give you a sense of the beginning and At the Beach. . . Alone Again will cronicle the gentle completion of the relationship.

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Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers - Larry James - It's HOT. . . and tastefully written. A terrific guide to physical intimacy! Each time you reload or refresh the page you can read another Red Hot LoveNote from the book. To read a few Red Hot LoveNotes, go to:!

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For hundreds of relationship books, videos, audios and music, visit Larry's Book Store. is the crème de la crème of intimacy Websites!

  Guy Finley's "Key Lessons" - The wisdom and wit of Guy Finley. Don't miss this opportunity to brighten your life! At every regular meeting at Guy's Foundation in southern Oregon, there's a special board in front of the class where the Key Lesson for that meeting is written out for everyone to consider before, during, and after the talk. Book mark this page and return every day for a breath of fresh air & something new to think about!

Pass along Larry's newest Website especially for authors & speakers, featuring lots of resources, tips, books & articles. Larry has independently published 4 books and offers "author/speaker coaching!"

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Relationship Humor

While enjoying an early morning breakfast in a northern Arizona cafe, four elderly ranchers were discussing everything from cattle, horses, and weather to how things used to be in the "good old days".

Eventually the conversation moved on to their spouses. One gentleman turned to the fellow on his right and asked, "Roy, aren't you and your bride celebrating your 50th wedding anniversary soon?"

"Yup, we sure are," Roy replied.

"Well, are you gonna do anything special to celebrate?" another man asked.

The old gentleman pondered this for a moment, then replied, "For our 25th anniversary, I took the missus to Tucson. For our 50th, I'm thinking about going down there again and picking her up."

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