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January 2006 - Issue #40  You received this issue of "LoveNotes for Lovers" eZINE because you completed the eZINE sign-up at: http://www.CelebrateLove.com/ezine.htm. If you would rather read this eZINE online, go to: http://www.CelebrateLove.com/ezine40.htm.
In this issue • A Personal Message from Larry James
LoveNote for Lovers. . . You do not stumble on a great relationship by accident. You experience it on purpose. It doesn't just happen. A great relationship is developed intentionally. It is created by mutual commitment and by nurturing it with loving thoughts, open communication, the attention given to it, intentional activity and a mutual decision for constructive action. It becomes whatever two love partners decide it to be. It is the result of two dancing hearts being in step with one another; dancing to the same rhythm; connected; communicating words of love in a dance of togetherness. LoveNote for Lovers. . . There is no future in the past. Being stuck in the past serves no worthy purpose. It takes much energy to remain confused. Live in the moment. Be in the present. Give your all to the relationship every moment you are in it. When you give your energy to being concerned about whether your relationship will last, you are demonstrating a concern that comes from your past. This renders you unable to focus the energy you need to have your love relationship work right now. It is not possible to move forward when you are always looking backward. LoveNote for Lovers. . . For Singles Only - If a healthy love relationship seems to always escape you, change your strategy. Instead of looking for love, spend more of your time breaking through the barrier you have built around your heart that keeps love from finding you. This barrier represents the things you are doing that may need to be examined before the voice of your heart can speak the words necessary to bring the barrier down. The only way out of this dilemma is through the barrier. No one can do this for you. Manage your thinking to look at it as a bridge you must cross, not a cross you must bear. LoveNote for Lovers. . . All there is, is relationships. Building a successful relationship is a never ending process. Work most on the first reality of your relationship - you. Your own personal growth contributes to the deepening and strengthening of the relationship you have with another. The second reality is your love partner. The relationship they have with themselves is only and always their responsibility. The third reality of a successful relationship is the 'us' of it. The joining of two whole people - complete in themselves - to do the work of a forever relationship is a worthy pursuit; one that is the most challenging and beautiful of all human experiences. Sample more LoveNotes: http://www.CelebrateLove.com/lovenote.shtml
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After a young couple brought their new baby home, the wife suggested that her husband should try his hand at changing diapers.
"I'm busy," he said, "I'll do the next one."
The next time came around and she asked again. The husband looked puzzled, "Oh! I didn't mean the next diaper. I meant the next baby!"
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