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February 2006 - Issue #41
Publisher, Larry James - Author, Speaker, Relationship Coach

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In this issue

•  A Personal Message from Larry James
•  LoveNotes for Lovers
•  Featured Relationship Article - Romantic Ideas to Make it Valentine's Day All Year Long!
•  Relationship "Book-of-the-Month" - How to Really Love the One You're With
•  Relationship Humor
•  Daily Love Potion - Served from the CelebrateLove.commissary
•  Contact Information - Tell us what you like best about LoveNotes for Lovers

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February is the "Love Month!" It contains the most romantic holiday - Valentine's Day - a holiday honoring love and lovers.

It's that month when we send Valentine cards and roses (or other romantic gifts) to our sweetheart.

Robert St. John (a great Valentine's Day role model), whose wide-ranging career took him to 88 countries died in 2003, at age 100. He wrote 23 books, but perhaps his most astonishing achievement was writing a love poem to his wife every day of a marriage that lasted more than 40 years.

Here's an idea: Make a list of 14 reasons why you love your partner. Let the words come from your heart. Do it up fancy on your computer, decorate it with a few hearts and include it in your Valentine card.

If you are single, be someone's secret Valentine - focus on friends who are special.

Celebrate your relationship or reach out and touch someone you love. Consider celebrating with friends or family. Be creative. Take some time to give some thought to how your partner likes to be acknowledged, appreciated and loved.

You must consistently invest in your relationship to receive its dividends. No deposit - no return.

No matter what you decide to do, it is the company you're in and the feelings you share together that makes an event memorable! Remember. . . A thoughtful act or kind word may pass in a moment, but the warmth and care behind it stays in the heart forever!

Happy Valentine's Day!

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  There can be no unconditional love without trust. Arms length trust does not work. Withholding trust creates a barrier around your heart. A relationship without trust is guarded. . . it is tainted by a lack of full self-expression with the one you love.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .   There is power in a hug. Hugs bring people together. This expression of human touch can silently speak forgiveness, sensitivity, acceptance, caring, healing and love.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  A great relationship begins with you. Make yourself better than you ever thought you could be and you will find the relationship you have with your love partner getting better. This works especially well when two people are focusing on working on themselves; together. Then, the relationship you have with the one you love can only grow and prosper.

Only selfish people think only of themselves. When you really love yourself you cannot help wanting to give some of your love away. Other people have a need to be loved. So do you. People are like that. Like attracts like. What you become you attract. Want a great love partner? Become a great love partner! Work on this one. Sharing love with someone else must only and always begin with you. Learn to relate to yourself better.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Forgiveness is for your benefit. It gives you the freedom to move forward. Telling someone you forgive them is a bonus and it is not necessary for forgiveness to be complete. Forgiveness will release you from all personal suffering and feelings of loss. Forgiveness is a mental attitude. Once convinced of its own idea, forgiveness is complete; freedom follows.

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Featured Relationship Article

Read "Romantic Ideas to Make it Valentine's Day All Year Long!" - Larry James - To be a special Valentine to your partner takes lots of energy, time, attention and Love. Let's all give some thought about who we are being in our relationship, what we can do to make them better and who we will have to become to have them be healthy and successful. Here are 66 tips to help you get started! If you have read this article before, read it again. I've added lots more tips!

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Featured Relationship "Book-of-the-Month"

Books make grrreat gifts for someone you love!
How to Really Love the One You're With: Affirmative Guidelines for a Healthy Love Relationship - Larry James - Larry James has transformed words of love into a message of hope that offers encouragement, inspiration and the opportunity for enlightenment in relationships. He presents a priceless treasury of inspiring and insightful thoughts, ideas, indispensable guidelines and reflections on how to really love the one you're with.

Larry's Review: What can I say? I wrote this one! It's been a consistent best-seller and is a great book to read together! Call me at 800-725-9223 and I will be happy to personally sign this book to you and/or your partner. It's also a great book for singles.

How To Really Love the One You're With
Ten Commitments of Networking by Professional Speaker, Author, Networking Coach, Larry James P.S. Larry's new book, "Ten Commitments of Networking: Creative Ways to Maximize Your Personal Connections" will be released and available in book stores this month (February). Business and personal networking is the #1 contact sport for people on the move. Networking is about building supportive personal and business relationships; it's consistently meeting new people and making new friends, sharing ideas and having lots of fun in the process. For a detailed look, go to:

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Guy Finley's "Key Lessons" - The wisdom and wit of Guy Finley. Don't miss this opportunity to brighten your life! At every regular meeting at Guy's Foundation in southern Oregon, there's a special board in front of the class where the Key Lesson for that meeting is written out for everyone to consider before, during, and after the talk. Book mark this page and return every day for a breath of fresh air & something new to think about!

Sample: The next time someone is cruel to you, remember this truth: what just clawed out at you is that person's pain -- and before it started tearing into you, it had already torn that poor person apart. This special kind of remembrance helps cancel the cycle of conflict, because we will not lash out at another whom we can see is already suffering. True compassion takes root in the ground of such higher understanding.

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Relationship Humor

A young man called his mother and announced excitedly that he had just met the woman of his dreams and asks her what he should do next.

His mother had an idea: "Why don't you send her flowers, and on the card, invite her to your apartment for a home cooked meal?"

He thought this was a great strategy and arranged a date.

His mother called the day after the big date to see how things had gone.

"The evening was a disaster," he moaned.

"Why, didn't she come over?" asked his mother.

"Oh, she came over, but she refused to cook!"

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LoveNote. . . "You helped make our wedding day very special with your expertise, patience, gentle sense of humor and kindness. From the day that I contacted you I felt very comfortable with you. Your voice soothed me and I always felt that you truly cared.

The day we met you to discuss the ceremony, you were much more than the officiant, you became a friend. You wanted to know Ed and me, not just perform a wedding ceremony. You wanted to know how we met, and find out about our families.

The day of our wedding, you were awesome. You knew we had small children involved in the wedding party, and you were the one that told me to not worry, everything would be ok. You were there for last minute questions that a bride always seems to have.

You talked to Ed and kept him calm. The ceremony was beautiful. You prompted us when we needed it in order for the entire ceremony to go smoothly. We were very pleased that you stayed with us to help us celebrate.

Larry you truly are a friend to us and we will always be very grateful that I discovered your website. And we look forward to seeing you again at Jason (Ed's son) and Stacey's wedding on February 26." - Clara & Ed Kendler

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