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March 2006 - Issue #42  You received this issue of "LoveNotes for Lovers" eZINE because you completed the eZINE sign-up at: http://www.CelebrateLove.com/ezine.htm. If you would rather read this eZINE online, go to: http://www.CelebrateLove.com/ezine42.htm.
In this issue • A Personal Message from Larry James
LoveNote for Lovers. . . Self-disclosure demands some risk of getting hurt. Your demonstration of courage, that is. . . revealing your true self to your love partner, in an atmosphere of unconditional love and acceptance, can open up new conversations that will support further disclosure in the most sensitive areas of your relationship, perhaps in the areas that count the most. LoveNote for Lovers. . . The energy required for the self-discipline of honesty is far less than the energy required for withholding what is in your heart. Withholding is always a matter of integrity. It is always potentially a lie. The cause of withholding is fear. Love is the answer. Fear cannot exist in the presence of Love. LoveNote for Lovers. . . For Singles Only - Letting go is not complicated. It is simple. Not easy. Simply identify the situation you want to let go of and ask yourself, "Am I willing to waste my energy further on this matter?" If the answer is "no," then that's it! Let go. Telling someone is a bonus. Detachment is only for you, never for another. It promotes healing. Choice is always present when you let go. You do not have to let go and there are consequences. LoveNote for Lovers. . . To live peacefully together in a responsible way, we must learn to understand that we are only responsible for our own individual thoughts, ideas, attitudes, decisions and actions and never for those of our love partner. To neglect our own responsibilities in the relationship in favor of our love partner's responsibility is codependency. Sample more LoveNotes: http://www.CelebrateLove.com/lovenote.shtml
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