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March 2008 - Issue #66
Publisher, Larry James - Author, Speaker, Relationship Coach

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In this issue

•  A Personal Message from Larry James
•  LoveNotes for Lovers
•  Featured Relationship Article - What is Love?
•  Relationship "Book-of-the-Month" - Going Deep
•  Relationship Humor
•  Bride & Groom of the Month! - View their photo gallery!
•  Guy Finley's "Key Lesson"
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SMALL Larry James Pic A Personal Message from Larry James:

I can always, if I want to, find something in today that wasn't there yesterday that makes today "one of my best days!" Sometimes I really have to look hard and long to find it. When I decide to really pay attention, I can always find something good.

What would you think if when you said, "How are you doing?" someone answered, "This is one of my best days!"?

I don't know about you but my curiosity would get the better of me. I would want to know just what it was that had it be one of their best days. It seems to me this could open up a very positive and constructive conversation.

I tested this idea recently when I saw one of the managers of a hotel in the hallway. She asked me how I was doing and I said, "This is one of my best days!"

It's easy to say that when things are going well. That day was truly one of my best days. Everything I touched turned to gold. I was on cloud nine.

She wanted to know what made it one of my best days, so I told her. I was glad she asked.

As my friend listened, I could see her becoming excited for me. Before we were through talking we were both charged up about the conversation. She was smiling and interacting with me in a way I had never experienced before. I was happy she was interested in hearing about my good news. You would have thought that it all happened to her.

I was moved to think that if couples in a love relationship would only look for the one thing each day that made their relationship special for that day, what a difference that might make!

What if, at the end of the day, you are talking with your love partner and you both could share that this day has been truly "one of our best days!"? The very idea promotes positive momentum.

I can think of a lot of good reasons for getting involved in this kind of conversation. I cannot come up with one good reason not to. Can you imagine how good it will feel to be able to share fully and concentrate mostly on the events of the day that had it be great for both of you?

If you are always looking for the good that makes life better, you will surely always find it. You will also be motivated to do more of what makes life great together.

Have a specific intention to initiate this kind of conversation with your lover. Exploring the things that make your relationship special can only assist you both in developing a stronger commitment to doing the things necessary to always have something good to talk about. It will draw you closer together.

When you look at your relationship carefully, you can always find plenty to work on. Never repress the things that happen that make the relationship not so great. Talk about them. Mutually decide what you can both do to make things better. Always working to make things better, noticing the efforts of your love partner and cherishing the results is what contributes to making up. . .

"This is one of our best days!"

Positive words build positive momentum in your love relationship.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  There is comfort in solitude. Love partners must learn to cherish their separateness while being together. A committed love relationship fosters respect; respect for each others' right to have some time to themselves.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  People who love each other learn to respect their inherent differences. Men and women think, feel and communicate differently. Understanding this is the key. With understanding comes acceptance. With acceptance comes the ultimate expression of unconditional love.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  In healthy love relationships we neither lead nor follow. We walk hand in hand, side by side. When it is appropriate, we can, without fear, let go for a while, always being nearby to love and to share. Love is no tug-of-war. We trust and respect our love partner giving them the freedom to be who they are, always with our love and best wishes.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  A kiss has been described as the height of voluptuousness. It has a lovely, luscious and lusty legacy. Kissing is an act of quiet intimacy and often borders on the erotic. It can be brief and cool or lengthy and hot. It can be highly romantic, building to a succulent crescendo of emotion and passion or passed off as something that is expected and therefore no big deal.

Two pairs of lips are for kissing. It is an essential element for communicating love and affection in your relationship. A kiss speaks many different meanings to its lover; when it is missing, many interpretations as to the reasons for its absence surface. These interpretations can become invisible wedges that prevent love from expressing. When love is present, kissing is an important part of expressing that love. Pay attention to it. Kissing does not always have to be a prelude to making love.

From the book, "LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing!" by Larry James

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Going Deep: Exploring Spirituality in Life and Leadership Going Deep: Exploring Spirituality in Life and Leadership - Ian D. Percy, CSP - "Going Deep" is a powerful and penetrating book that reconnects readers to joy, meaning and spirituality in life and work. In particular it challenges leaders to understand that until they focus as much on "Why?" as they do on "How?" they will never release the full potential of their organization. Ian presents an unusually insightful description of the inner spiritual life of an organization - and all organizations have one. There are six phases of spiritual development that all individuals and all organizations must journey through to reach meaning and fulfillment. The failure to do so results in irritation and anger. Never before has a business book reached so deeply into the human soul - and with such humor.

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Guy Finley's "Key Lessons" - The wisdom and wit of Guy Finley. Don't miss this opportunity to brighten your life! At every regular meeting at Guy's Foundation in southern Oregon, there's a special board in front of the class where the Key Lesson for that meeting is written out for everyone to consider before, during, and after the talk. Book mark this page and return every day for a breath of fresh air & something new to think about!

Sample: Freedom from self-wrecking behavior must begin with our recognition that we are voluntarily serving that which compromises us, even though we may strongly claim the counter is true. Such a conscious awareness of this conflict inherent in our own divided mind may be difficult to endure, but only if we fail to realize this last point: This conscious awareness - and it alone - is the seed of a new action that eventually flowers in a self-wholeness that is one and the same with true self-freedom.

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Relationship Humor

A husband asks his wife, "When I get mad at you, you never fight back. How do you control your anger?"

"I clean the toilet bowl."

"How does that help?"

"I use your toothbrush."

And there's more. . . "If you want your spouse to listen and pay strict attention to every word you say - talk in your sleep."

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