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June 2008 - Issue #69  You received this issue of "LoveNotes for Lovers" eZINE because you completed the eZINE sign-up at: http://www.CelebrateLove.com/ezine.htm. If you would rather read this eZINE online, go to: http://www.CelebrateLove.com/ezine69.htm.
In this issue • A Personal Message from Larry James
LoveNote for Lovers. . . Your happiness can never come from someone else. It only comes from taking care of yourself, with feeling good about yourself and knowing that the time you invest in your own personal growth is one of the greatest contributions you can make to the relationship you have with your lover. LoveNote for Lovers. . . It is okay to say, "No." It is not okay to say, "Yes," when your heart tells you to say otherwise. It is not possible to fulfill every request made of you. Compulsively saying yes is potentially self-destructive; it is behavior that signals co-dependency. To let go of feeling guilty when you say, "No," is a new way of being that takes practice. Say 'no' to meeting the demands and needs of everyone except yourself. Stand up for you. Cease being a conspirator in your own abuse. Your relationship with someone else does not depend upon giving up yourself. You give of yourself to the other. You never give up yourself to the other. Healthy, mature love does not make us less than we are individually. LoveNote for Lovers. . . One of the secrets to a healthy love relationship is to never take more than you give. LoveNote for Lovers. . . The goal of resolving conflict in a relationship is not victory or defeat. It is reaching a mutual understanding through open discussions that benefits both love partners. It requires letting go of our need to be right. Mutually solving problems brings love partners closer together. It allows for negotiation and compromise. It promotes positive momentum. LoveNote for Lovers. . . Healthy, committed love partners will say, "I'm sorry. I was wrong," and mean it, rather than hold on to being right or walking away. From the book, "LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing!" by Larry James Sample more LoveNotes: http://www.CelebrateLove.com/lovenote.shtml
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Sample: Just as a swarm of flies that darkens the sky is swept aside by a single breeze, so too can the pervasive negative states that darken one's heart and mind be brushed away -- if we will only dare to come awake to ourselves and ask that tormenting spirit a single question: Upon what is your authority based?
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Relationship Humor
Your marriage is in trouble if your wife says, "You're only interested in one thing," and you can't remember what it is. - Milton Berle
A widow recently married to a widower, was accosted by a friend who laughingly remarked, "I suppose, like all men who have been married before, your husband sometimes talks about his first wife?" "Oh, not any more," the other woman replied. "What stopped him?" asked the first. "I started talking about my next husband," replied the second woman.
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