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Issue #80
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May 2009 - Issue #80
Publisher, Larry James - Author, Speaker, Relationship Coach

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In this issue

•  A Personal Message from Larry James
•  LoveNotes for Lovers
•  Featured Relationship Article - LoveNote for Singles Only!
•  Relationship "Book-of-the-Month" - Self-Love: The Crown Jewel
•  Relationship Humor
•  Bride & Groom-of-the-Month! - View their photo gallery!
•  Guy Finley's "Key Lesson"
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Tiny Larry James Pic A Personal Message from Larry James:

When two lovers have been together for a long time, passion can often be dampened by the comfort of shared routines and especially muted by daily activities when they are apart.

To enjoy a more satisfying level of intimacy, spend time working to recapture the excitement of your best times together.

Take time-out for the two of you; a special time, free of all distractions, to indulge in reminiscence. Develop a plan to add festivity, playfulness and romantic happenings to the times you spend with one another.

From this shared activity, you will experience a higher level of compassion for each other and the reassurance of forever love that may have been missing.

Good fortune favors those who actively work together to create a sense of shared responsibility for the success of their relationship.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Insecurities bring forth jealousy, which, is a cry for more love. It is within your rights to ask for more affection when self-doubts' surface, however, the indirect way that jealousy asks for it is counterproductive. Excessive possessiveness is inappropriate. Jealousy is the surest way to drive away the very person you may fear losing.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Our feelings help us to discover ourselves. Heed their call. They provide clues and insights into who we are and often become the catalyst for re-inventing ourselves. The energy for change is inspired by the emotional honesty we express through our feelings.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Ask yourself: "Would I want to be in a relationship with me?" "Am I someone who I would want to be with forever?" Answer honestly. What comes up is always worth working on. Focus on doing what you can to make the good things better and give up behavior that has you curious enough to ask in the first place.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  As we come to understand our equal share in creating problems. . . blame, self-doubt, and discord gives way to personal responsibility, accountability, mutual respect and intimacy. In a healthy love relationship, things are easiest when both love partners take responsibility for the whole, not just their halves

From the book, "LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing!" by Larry James

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Featured Relationship "Book-of-the-Month"

Books make grrreat gifts for someone you love!

Self-Love: The Crown Jewel - Mimi Chevalier Shannon - This book presents a new paradigm for self-acceptance. While the culture measures our value by outside opinion, self-love brings it back to home base and at our own discretion; through this repositioning comes the freedom of self-determination and the joy of living in integrity with self.

Larry's Review: - A wonderful book; one that leads us on a path of self-acceptance and love. Mimi's journey is told with stories and dialogue with her collaborator, Rebecca Emily Smith. Highly Recommended.


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Guy Finley's "Key Lessons" - The wisdom and wit of Guy Finley. Don't miss this opportunity to brighten your life! At every regular meeting at Guy's Foundation in southern Oregon, there's a special board in front of the class where the Key Lesson for that meeting is written out for everyone to consider before, during, and after the talk. Book mark this page and return every day for a breath of fresh air & something new to think about!

Sample: Mediocrity is a form of madness, a dream embraced by the masses because it makes just getting by an acceptable -- sometimes applauded -- social art form. What is excellent requires extra effort. To agree to sleep our way through life is to lose everything, because it rules out the possibility of our soul ever being stirred into its awakening.

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Woman to perfume counter salesgirl: "I want my husband to pay more attention to me. Got anything that smells like a computer?"

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My girlfriends, Sadie, Gwen & Ali attended, and neither one of their husbands was able to accompany them. They sat next to each other, and when you mentioned holding a hand of a loved one or friend, they told me that they grabbed each other's hands in friendship, it was so nice to hear that your words moved them, as they seem to have moved most of our guests, and that's exactly what I wanted. My grandmother felt at ease all night long, my aunts and uncles just loved your words. I look forward to hearing more comments from my friends and family as well.

You truly made this day special, memorable and more than I could have ever hoped for. I never understood what it meant to have a "perfect" wedding, but during and after the service, I finally understood what it meant to me. How special the day was, and even now, your words still linger in my brain as I'm sure they will for the next few days.

I will never, EVER forget my wedding day because you put that special touch into it. Even now as I write this email, I can't help but smile because you truly made it wonderful. Thank you again for all that you've done, I will never forget you or the great gift of your beautiful wedding ceremony. I do hope I see you again at the Boojum Tree. And if I know of anyone who is thinking of getting married, your name will always be mentioned." - Charlene & Damian Tate

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