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July 2004 - Issue #22  You received this issue of "LoveNotes for Lovers" eZINE because you completed the eZINE sign-up at: http://www.CelebrateLove.com/ezine.htm. There is a link at the bottom of this eZINE if you decide that you would rather not receive "LoveNotes for Lovers" in the future. We PROMISE to remove you from our e-mailing list immediately. Please copy and paste our "From" e-mail address - Larry_James___CelebrateLove.com@mail.vresp.com - to your e-mail address book so it won't be tagged as spam! If you are using AOL, Earthlink, Hotmail, Yahoo or a personal spam filter, please help ensure that you receive e-mail from this e-mail address by adding this e-mail address to your e-mail address book. This will "whitelist" our e-mail address, telling your hosting service that you definitely do want to receive e-mail from our e-mail address. If you would rather read this eZINE online, go to http://www.CelebrateLove.com/ezinesample21.htm.
In this issue • A Personal Message from Larry James
LoveNote for Lovers. . . It is okay to say, "No." It is not okay to say, "Yes," when your heart tells you to say otherwise. It is not possible to fulfill every request made of you. Compulsively saying yes is potentially self-destructive; it is behavior that signals co-dependency. To let go of feeling guilty when you say, "No," is a new way of being that takes practice. Say 'no' to meeting the demands and needs of everyone except yourself. Stand up for you. Cease being a conspirator in your own abuse. Your relationship with someone else does not depend upon giving up yourself. You give of yourself to the other. You never give up yourself to the other. Healthy, mature love does not make us less than we are individually. LoveNote for Lovers. . . This is the solitary virtue of anger. We become empowered by anger when we view it as something that brings to our awareness those parts of us that need healing. There are other benefits worthy of discovery; only one virtue. LoveNote for Lovers. . . For Singles Only - You must be content to first be happy alone so you can be happy when you are together with someone else. Happy and healthy relationships are usually made between happy and healthy people; people who were happy and healthy before they became love partners. LoveNote for Lovers. . . For Singles Only - Make having a great relationship with yourself your number one priority. Spend time working on you. It is a prerequisite to having a healthy love relationship with someone else. Work on developing your own self as an individual. Reinvent a relationship with yourself. Make it a new and exciting relationship; one you can be proud to carry over into your next relationship with someone else. Allow a time for healing the hurts of the past. Nobody wants damaged goods. LoveNote for Lovers. . . Resist being afraid to reveal your limitations to your partner. Yes, it's scary, and you are now a team. Your partner will almost always be the most dependable, the first in line to care, and the first to help, if help is requested. Often all that is needed is someone who will listen. First, it is okay to make yourself vulnerable. Next, working together on strengthening limitations develops character. It promotes unity by creating a common bond of sharing that helps each other be the best they can be for themselves and for the relationship. Sample more LoveNotes: http://www.CelebrateLove.com/lovenote.shtml
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Powerful Beyond Measure: What's This About Mid-life Crisis? - Is mid-life crisis a myth? We all have decisive and critical moments from time to time. A crisis or two now and then perhaps, but a crisis that ongoingly occupies an important part of our mid-life? Certainly we have learned by now that crises take our attention off of living life to its fullest. . . moment by moment.
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Relationship Humor
Married men should forget their mistakes - there's no point in two people remembering the same thing.
My wife made me join a bridge club. I jump off next Tuesday. 
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