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October 1, 2002 - Issue #4
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A Personal Message from Larry James:  Take advantage of change before it takes advantage of you!

Sometimes change is ugly. It's unsettling. It makes some relationships as rattled as a cocktail shaker in a Tom Cruise movie. One partner changes, the other one doesn't. If you don't face change, change will mess you up big time. It doesn't wait for your permission. It just changes things.

If you have the courage to look change directly in the eye and make a commitment to change for the better; to do whatever it takes to make your relationship better, you will be amazed at the results!

P.S. You cannot change your partner. . . so stop trying!

Enjoy this months' issue. . . and remember to pass along our eZINE to your friends!

In this issue

•  LoveNote for Lovers - Grrreat Relationships Nuggets!
•  Featured Relationship Article - Same Event! Different Scores!
•  Relationship "Books-of-the-Month" - 101 Night of Grrreat Romance &
Relationship Rescue •  Relationship Humor - Time to lighten up! S-M-I-L-E!
•  EmotionaLogic Assessment and Profile - Relationship Insurance
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•  Contact Information - Express yourself! Let us hear from you!

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Only one response to conflict opens the door to intimacy; an intent to learn from the experience.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Affirmation - I know that if I want my love relationship to fulfill its purpose, I must enlighten my experience of it. I must drop judgments, pre-conceived notions, opinions, expectations, positions and beliefs about it. When I do this, a miracle occurs. The miracle that occurs is that the love relationship I have becomes the love relationship I want; the one that nurtures and supports me; the one that truly empowers my love partner and me.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  You can gain much insight into the power of your attitudes in the stillness of looking inward. A quiet and peaceful mind takes form as a quiet and peaceful body. Your subconscious mind believes every word you say. Your words and thoughts govern how your world and your relationship will be. Believe this and know that when problems surface; the first step is to look within. Take care to accept your share of the responsibility for the problem, then get busy doing what you can to work on the solution. Those who cannot imagine this to be true, spend most of their time and energy making sure everyone knows the problem is someone else's fault.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  For Singles Only - If you do not cherish the companionship you find with yourself then you can never find it with someone else. It is important to be your own best friend. Doing so gives you knowledge of yourself. You must have a clear understanding of what true friendship is before you can earn the right to share it with someone else. Once that status is achieved, the warmth of the friendship you have for yourself will radiate and attract another who has shared a similar experience; someone who will appreciate you for the true friend you really are.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Rarely does anyone get what they need from a relationship when their only intention is to criticize their lover for mistakes or to offer assistance that is not asked for.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Change is always possible in our relationship because it is only and always a choice. Taking responsibility for our choices leads to a profound sense of freedom and inner peace.

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Featured Relationship Article

Same Event! Different Scores! OR. . . If We're in This Together Why Aren't We On the Same Team? - Men and women see and hear things differently! Perhaps it's all about interpretation! Could it be true that we all experience contrasting realities of the same event? Do we all think we are right? Are we committed to hold on to that opinion? Does this make us happy in our relationships?

Read the complete article. . .

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Featured Relationship "Books-of-the-Month"
101 Nights of Grrreat Romance 101 Nights of Grrreat Romance: How to Make Love With Your Clothes On - Laura Corn - This book is filled with secret sealed recipes for romance - half for men and half for women. Because they're sealed, neither party has any idea what the other is planning - but sometime during the week, each will surprise the other with a sweet seduction.

Larry's Review: A terrific guide for getting back on the "romance track." You will also find some LoveNotes from my book, "LoveNotes for Lovers" scattered about in this book.
Relationship Rescue: A Seven-Step Strategy for Reconnecting With Your Partner - Phillip C. McGraw, Ph.D - His first book, Life Strategies, was a number one New York Times national bestseller, now Dr. Phil turns his expertise to the primary area of concern troubling most people: their relationships. In his tell-it-like-it-is style, "Dr. Phil" blows the whistle on the rhetoric of traditional "couples therapy." Instead, he tells you at the very beginning that no matter what state your relationship is in, not only are you responsible for it; you are responsible for getting it back on track.

Larry's Review: WoW! What a great book! Dr. Phil was featured regularly on Oprah and now has his own TV show. To-the-point relationship first-aid. Highly recommended.
Relationship Rescue

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Domestic Violence Sucks!
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Relationship Humor

While enjoying an early morning breakfast in a northern Arizona cafe, four elderly ranchers were discussing everything from cattle, horses, and weather to how things used to be in the "good old days."

Eventually the conversation moved on to their spouses. One gentleman turned to the fellow on his right and asked, "Roy, aren't you and your bride celebrating your 50th wedding anniversary soon?"

"Yup, we sure are," Roy replied.

"Well, are you gonna do anything special to celebrate?" another man asked.

The old gentleman pondered this for a moment, then replied, "For our 25th anniversary, I took the missus to Tucson. For our 50th, I'm thinking about going down there again and picking her up." Banner

Bonus Article - "15 Hot Ideas for Phenomenal Physical Intimacy!" - Count 'em! Fifteen ideas to help you put the "sizzle" back in the bedroom.

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