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March 2003 - Issue #9
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•  A Personal Message from Larry James
•  LoveNotes for Lovers - Terrific Relationship Tips
•  Featured Relationship Article - Operation UNDERwhelm
•  Relationship "Book-of-the-Month" - Bitter or Better?
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SMALL Larry James Pic A Personal Message from Larry James:

People who are anxious to change their relationship and are unwilling to change their behavior within the relationship will forever remain stuck! If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always gotten.

Ralph Waldo Emerson once said, "The only thing that can grow is the thing you give energy to." Put your relationship at the top of your priority list and focus all your attention on it for the best results.

Always remember: A relationship is something that must be worked on "all the time," not only when it is broken and needs to be fixed.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  The goal of resolving conflict in a relationship is not victory or defeat. It is reaching a mutual understanding through open discussions that benefits both love partners. It requires letting go of our need to be right. Mutually solving problems brings love partners closer together. It allows for negotiation and compromise. It promotes positive momentum.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  If you ever reach a point in your relationship where you think you have nothing good to say about your love partner, close your mouth until you think of something good to say. . . then say it. You tell yourself what to think. . . tell yourself to 'shut up' when the temptation to speak ill of your lover occurs.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  For Singles Only - The relationship of your heart's desire will manifest itself when you, in earnest, consistently do everything you can to make it happen. Doing what you can to make it happen means taking care of yourself. It means being okay with being alone; loving your own company. When you reach this level of awareness, your true love will sneak up on you. Be careful not to make the mistake of looking for a relationship. That only keeps it away.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  When we disagree, our relationship can often become 'temporarily out of order.' Arguments that bring anger to the boiling point are most destructive. Restoration is a process. It requires patience, understanding, acceptance and much love. Discuss with an intention to resolve the conflict. Give up being right. Arguments create negative distance. We must move through conflict as quickly as we can. Life is too short to maintain negative distance between love partners for lengthy periods of time.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  For Singles Only - Letting go is not complicated. It is simple. Not easy. Simply identify the situation you want to let go of and ask yourself, "Am I willing to waste my energy further on this matter?" If the answer is "no," then that's it! Let go. Telling someone is a bonus. Detachment is only for you, never for another. It promotes healing. Choice is always present when you let go. You do not have to let go and there are consequences.

From the book, LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing by Larry James.

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New Beginnings! What to Do? - For Singles Only - Alone again? Perhaps it's time to invent a new beginning. You can do that most effectively by working on you; preparing for love. There is no shame in starting over. How do you work on YOU? You begin by paying attention to what you need to be fulfilled as an individual. Focus on YOU! Self inquire!

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Bitter or Better: Your Choices After Divorce - Deborah Kidd Leporowski, Psy.D. - For the millions who are struggling with the aftermath of divorce, Dr. Leporowski's insights provide a private, economical program that will challenge you to use your divorce as the perfect opportunity to re-examine all aspects of your life and will convince you to leave bitterness, anger and resentment behind.

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